After searching for awhile, then posting this... of course I found it.
Here it is for anyone else that may need it.... LogWin
LogWinExt.exe /DSIP:{IP address of the TCP/IP Server} /DSPORT:{Port of the TCP/IP Server} E.g.: LogWinExt.exe /DSIP:127.0.0.1 /DSPORT:1234 - Connects you with the local computer
Database Spy
DatabaseSpyExt.exe /DSIP:{IP address of the TCP/IP Server} /DSPORT:{Port of the TCP/IP Server} E.g.: DatabaseSpyExt.exe /DSIP:10.168.23.108 /DSPORT:1234 - Connects you with the TCP/IP Server located on the computer 10.168.23.108.
It it also possible to do this over the encrypted port (51234)? The docs only seem to include parameters for specifying the IP and the port, but not the mode which defaults to TCP/IP.